Daily Chizuk #1005

Shidduchim can be a very difficult process, as many people could attest to. It is important to remind ourselves that the real shadchan is HaKadosh Baruch Hu and, therefore, we should never blame other people for why things are taking so long. Every moment of waiting and every rejection is all part of the great plan of a person’s purpose in this world. And the better the person is able to accept what is happening, the more valuable it becomes for him. When the time comes, Hashem knows how to bring a couple together in the blink of an eye.
Hashem works in mysterious ways. He is the only One in charge of shidduchim and, when the time is right, He will use the way that He sees fit to bring a couple together.